Characteristic of a failure

Asm. Bismillah.

Yesterday there was a slot, like every wednesday at IKIM.FM an islamic radio station in Malaysia. The slot was with a well-knowned Eye Specialist Prof Muhaya. She's on air every wednesday from 10 till 11. Lembah Klang 91.5

Amongst the content of the slot yesterday was 3 characteristic of a failure.

1. Those who grumble.
2. Those who blame others.
3. Those who blame themselves.

Saying things like-

• 'this again...'
• 'not that...'
• 'now what???'

Saying things like-

• 'he started it...'
• 'she told me to...'
• 'it was his fault I...'

Saying things like-

• 'I can't...'
  
• 'If only I...'
• 'Im just a...'

You are what you believe. Have you heard of it? I've heard it. What we think, what we say is what make us who we are. So why not change or paradigm..

1. Think of what you have, not what you dont. Your eyes, nose, ears, hands, feet.
   
2. Appreciate others before they are gone. Your parents, teachers, friends, colleagues.
3. Appreciate yourself they way you wish people to appreciate you. - Your uniqueness, your speciality. Your DUTY.

'...So hold that which I have given you and be of greatful.'

Al A'raf 7:144

Keep Moving Forward!
Remember, YOU can make a difference!

Mistakes

Assalamualaikum. A new day, but again mistakes were made like they were really running in the blood veins. But then again, we are the sons and daughters of Adam. Not an angel, not a prophet. We are mere human beings, living live to seek Allah's pleasure.

Prophet Muhammad PBUH once said, 'Every son of Adam had done wrong/sins and the best of those who sin are those who repent (from mistakes).' HR Imam Tirmidzi No. 2423

So, when we make mistakes, repent [meaning to reproach oneself, look back at the actions and think the consequences behing it all]. Try to set it in the mind, not to do the bad things and reflect it upon actions.

People who walk slowly learns more. We live the day to our fullest. Then at night, take a moment to reflect upon what we did. Walking slowly, you realise what your problems are, reflect on them and then mature. Not rushing through the day and night without stopping and reflecting.

Making mistakes are a part of living. By making mistakes, we learn and experience. By making mistakes, we grow up and mature. So, being the people who is making the mistake, keep moving forward and change! And being the people who are next to those mistake-makers, chill!! Don't give discouraging comments, these people are the ones that should help others to improve. Support them. Though cruel remarks can actually wake up someone, don't use it all the time. Live a green and possitive life.

One day, we all look back and appreciate these moments and these people and think 'thank God, I did that! And thank God, I met them!'

So, the summary is:-

• reflect upon the mistakes you did
• don't be afraid to make mistakes
• cherish the moments and people around

Keep Moving Forward!
Remember, YOU can make a difference!